Rustic x Ralph Lauren Coastal for Lydia & Luke at Carmel Valley Ranch

One of our very favorite events of last season was for the sweetest couple, Lydia & Luke from Fort Worth, Texas. They love the warmth and coastal feel that Carmel by the Sea brings, and we worked hard to bring that through in the wedding weekend design. A few details we loved were the salt and pepper oysters, mirroring the roaming oyster shuckers we had at cocktail hour, and the brown paper paired with bright figs at the seating chart. Take a peak into their day, shot by the lovely Kendall Aubrey Photo who we cannot recommend enough. (Also I have to say, the quickest album I have ever received, always a plus!) See our vendor credits below for a stellar group of humans to work with:

Venue: Carmel Valley Ranch a Hyatt Resort, Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Photography: Kendall Aubrey Photo, Super 8 Film: With Love Content, Content Creation: The Cupid Content Co, Hair: Kay Hairstylist, Makeup: Jenny Lucia Artistry, Oysters: Parker Presents, Papergoods: Leighwood Design, Cake: Tart & Tin, Music: Dart Collective, Florals: Paeonina, Vintage Car: Monterey Touring Vehicles

The day started with the styling of intentional details such as the curated invitation suite made of deep browns & creams, the ceramic dish of special heirloom jewelry and the matching bride and groom pinkie rings. We gathered among the oak tree trail at the venue for a private first look, that was the sweetest moment caught on super 8 film. The small family bridal party loaded up the shuttles to leave for Carmel Mission Basilica for our Catholic Mass ceremony. The dip moment at the end of the aisle is picture perfect.

Guests waived goodbye to guests that gathered and watched getaway car pull off.

The vintage car getaway moment was another favorite detail of the wedding day. Guests headed to Carmel Valley Ranch clubhouse patio for roaming oysters, a harvest display, and Fall flavored his & her cocktails. The October weather was warm and guests had the most perfect golden light they enjoyed for photo time overlooking the valley view. We ushered to dinner and the bride and groom shared a choregraphed dance to kick off the five course dinner spread.

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wedding ceremony at carmel mission

The large floral urns that flanked the reception bar were transferred from the iconic doors at Carmel Mission, to be repurposed perfectly. The couple had fun during photos and this one is one of my very favorites from the whole gallery, but they got so many effortlessly playful shots. Stunning!

The couple toasted to the family speeches with rippled toasts gifted from the grooms mom, we had waited at their place setting for dinner.

Our cake display table from Tart & Tin, adorned perfectly aligned with our vision but the lovely Sara of Paeonina.

Abalone caviar spoons and real oysters worked as salt & pepper cellars on each table.

Soft grey patterned linens paired with dark brown modern table lamps adorned the table displays, stone table numbers and travertine votives, to name a few of the details. Dark burgundy and bright chartreuse pops of green were the perfect floral centerpiece focal point for our design. The bride came to us with an idea to cut small cake with large table groupings, for a round the table power hour before dancing kicked off with a saxophonist from Dart music. The couples outfit change and high energy made a memorable kick off to the final hours of their wedding night.

A checked board dance floor is one trend we hope sticks around!

custom matchboxes made by Engaged & Inspired with the getaway car is styled in a flatlay with cake & cigars.

The bride changed into a Kyha bride mini dress for the afterparty moment & enjoyed a espresso martini.

We ended the night with a fun photo and guest moment with pouring pre batched espresso martinis for the late night final portion of our night. The bride and groom had so much fun passing out espresso martinis as guests came up the stairs to enjoy after party dancing. The team handed out branded mini tambourines for guests to continue to party late night inside the Carmel Valley Ranch clubhouse. We had custom pizza boxes we designed and ordered for Lydia & Luke’s request of late night pizza. Guests could grab their own box or slice and take a break from dancing, and it was a fan favorite moment of the season. We loved working with Carmel Valley Ranch banquet team to plan the martini tower in perfect timing with the self serve pizza bar. A dance set went into the late night hours of one AM, with a local shuttle running between nearby hotel locations, and the CVR lobby for guests on the half hour. Thank you to Lydia & Luke for working with us to build out their dream wedding weekend in our hometown of Carmel Valley.

Welcome Party at Stonepine Estate

A casual Italian style pizza welcome party at Double H Ranch, located at Stonepine Estate in Carmel Valley Village, California. We wanted a casual outdoor dinner party to welcome guests as they arrived,

Catering: Sleight of Hand Pizza, Styling & Specialty Rentals: Engaged & Inspired, Gelato: La Copa Loca, Welcome bags: Engaged & Inspired, Linens: Nuage Linen, Venue: Double H Ranch at Stonepine Estate.

A Summer Stonepine Wedding

VENDOR TEAM - Photo: Kelsea Holder , Venue : Stonepine Estate, Florals: Paeonina, Paper Goods: Heart Paper Soul, Full Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Hair & Makeup: Muah Hair & Makeup, Cake: Sweet Rebas, Transportation: Main Event, Catering: Hollie Jackson Events

A Vibrant French-Chateau-Inspired Wedding at Stonepine Estate

There are some weddings we look back on that instantly make you feel nostalgic—and this celebration at Stonepine Estate in Carmel Valley Village was one of them. Set against the rolling hills and timeless architecture of this historic venue, our couple embraced a design palette that felt fresh, joyful, and effortlessly elegant. Hannah & Scott brought so much joy to the whole planning process, and we wanted their day and vendor team to reflect that same energy back to them! Shot on film and digital from our favorite, Kelsea Holder Photo.

Inspired by a blend of preppy charm and French chateau romance, the mood board centered around pinks and greens with playful pops of peach. Together, these colors created a bright, vibrant atmosphere that perfectly reflected the couple’s fun-loving personalities. Hannah let us know early on she would like a bright pink for her bridal party, and the design cascaded from there.

From uplifting floral moments to fashion-forward details and personalized touches woven throughout the day, every element was designed to balance sophistication with whimsy. Stonepine Estate’s European-inspired grounds served as the perfect backdrop—lush gardens, sun-drenched pathways, and that undeniable Carmel Valley magic.

This wedding is a beautiful reminder that when couples lean into what feels like “them,” the celebration becomes not just beautiful—but truly unforgettable.

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The property has so many amazing photo opportunities and different areas for groups to hang out on the wedding day.

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The clients decided to have the ceremony at the pool terrace, and the dinner on the Loggia lawn.

striped menus to add a touch of whimsy and a cutting cake that got served with tiered dessert towers.

We love to work at Stonepine Estate, and have been visiting the property since I was young. It is a special place, that has a lot of quirky ins and outs we can guide our clients through. Reach out to start planning!

Classic Folktale Winery Wedding

VENDOR TEAM - Photo: Michelle Beckwith, Venue : Folktale Winery, Florals: Max Gill Designs, Paper Goods: The Quill, Full Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Getaway Car: Monterey Touring Vehicles, Cake: Sweet Rebas, Transportation: Main Event

Margeaux & Bowman are the cutest southern couple you have ever met! They met in college and had the most adorable love story. Pairing Margeaux, and her impeccable aesthetic, with the right vendor team was crucial in the planning process. We curated a day that felt very much them, and it paired perfectly with the French Chateau inspired Folktale Winery venue in Carmel Valley. The intimate Vineyard house is one of my favorite venues for smaller scale guest lists, seating 80 people perfectly on the patio.

The bride wore a tulle shrug for her ceremony to accompany her strapless gown. 

Our seating chart fountain was the focal point of cocktail area. We collaborated with Max Gill to build this on site. 

we planned to match our cake design to the couple's family heirlooms in sterling silver. 

We love to work at Folktale Winery, with the diverse food and wine program, and the endless photo areas being a few of our favorite reasons. This venue also makes a perfect welcome party or rehearsal location.

Rehearsal dinner & Welcome party in Carmel Valley

Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Venue: Cowgirl Winery, Photography: Alicia Mink Photo, Linens: BBJ Linens, Details: Engaged & Inspired, Catering: Corkscrew Cafe

We loved planning this laid back welcome party, right down the street from our studio in Carmel Valley Village, at Cowgirl Winery & Corkscrew Cafe restaurant. We used the property for a multi event evening, with a small intimate family style rehearsal dinner, that rolled into a welcome party cocktail hour. Our design was inspired by the couples love of European summer vacations, and fit the venue perfectly. Think wood fired pizza, gorgonzola and pear salads, hugo & aperol spritz, & ending the night with lemon meringue mini tarts & tiramisu cups. The guest fashion was on point, and the bride and groom got to spend time interacting with everyone on a more intimate level before the wedding day. Highly recommend! Drop us a note if you are looking to plan a similar welcome party in Carmel or Carmel Valley.

Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal
Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal

Family toasts during dinner and in between courses made the perfect start to this Friday night. The venue tables and chairs, wooden accent furniture, and carmel valley charm make this one of our favorite venues in the village. We love bringing our clients vision to life with our in house planning & design.

Carmel Valley Welcome party and rehearsal

Santa Lucia Preserve

Full Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Photography: Willow & Ben, Venue: Santa Lucia Preserve, Floral Design: Barefoot Floral, Beauty: The Hair & Makeup Co, Entertainment: Golden Bell Productions, Cake: Layers Monterey, Rentals: Adore Folklore, Chic Event Rentals, Lighting: Fiesta Lighting

Carmel Valley Ranch Wedding, Olivia & Kevin

Olivia & Kevin wed earlier this year at the stunning Carmel Valley Ranch with a close group of family and friends, and a few of their very favorite vendors that spoke to the couple and their vision. It was such a pleasure to be brought on for full design & partial planning as I really aligned with the clients modern style and leaned into the bride’s favorite color of deep green and natural textured elements. It was a joy to work with the loving and creative Brandi Crocket photo based out of Ojai, CA and traveling in for the event. Here’s just a sneak peek of our day so we will be posted a second round up of images soon!

Our amazing vendor team - Planning & Design: Engaged & Inspired, Venue: Carmel Valley Ranch, Photo: Brandi Crocket Photo, Hair & Makeup: Blush Monterey, Specialty Rentals: Chic Event Rentals & Theoni rentals, Custom decor: Wilde Valley, Floral designer: Unwritten Florals

carmel valley ranch wedding with Engaged & Inspired events

The newest wedding party trend is embracing personal style and individuality with an individually chosen bridal party dress than can be re worn. Instead of matching dresses, we're seeing beautifully mismatched garden dresses with unique floral patterns. This mix creates a visually stunning combination, showing off each bridesmaid's personality and best look. It's a modern twist on tradition that brings even more life to the party and adds a fun look to group photos. You can see how much fun they were having on the day!

The venue is set directly in between the property vineyards and garden, so guests have views as they enter and leave the ceremony to reception, with an optional walk right through the vineyard trail. We love hosting guests on the harvest landing any chance we get! This spot is best for groups up to 85 guests.

The secret deck at Carmel Valley Ranch is one of our favorite places to take our couples for a first look moment or to carve some special time in for portraits. The bridal party greeted them upon their return for a quick champagne toast and a quick stroll through the resort. Parasols were the perfect addition for the bridal party vibe and helped keep them a bit cooler during a hot day of pre ceremony fun!

Stradley Davidson table runners were paired perfectly with deep olive green napkins, handmade cane webbing napkin rings, bone style flatware, and mini bread loafs tied with calligraphy name cards or herb sprigs as meal indicators. A mix of bud vases, raffia votives, and my favorite: mini table lights, created an eclectic mix of table decor on the wooden tables. The round centerpieces filled the linen tables perfectly.

Pictured above is the perfect late summer weather, blessing wedding guests during cocktail hour on the harvest landing. We timed the start of dinner with the sunset lighting as we escorted all guests over to indoor space, ready with greenery installations that tied the room together nicely with the tablescapes.

A fun seating chart to let guests know where to sit, was one of the brides’ favorite details that came to life. The couple was able to sneak away for sunset photos as guests moved throughout the property. Carmel Valley Ranch is one of our favorite venues in the Carmel area, as it has so many fun locations on the huge property, and we cannot wait to work there again soon!

Modern Design Inspiration

I have put together a little snippet of things I've been loving at the moment. Less is more and simplicity are trends I'm starting to love more and more. Thank you Instagram for keeping me inspired day after day!

J & K | Holman Ranch Wedding

Holman Ranch, settled in the base of Carmel Valley, is the perfect blank canvas where anyones wedding dreams can become a reality. When choosing this 750 acre estate the options are endless with Jerusha and Kole proving this. Although this location being traditionally a more rustic location, modern and simple elements were added to this commencement to cater to what Jerusha and Kole had dreamed of which we strive to do here at Engaged & Inspired.

Photography: Sally Pinera | Floral: Christine Cater | Catering: Paradise Catering | Venue: Holman Ranch.

Design Process - ROUND 1 | Romantically Rustic Inspiration

I am spending the off season planning and designing for 2017/2018 clients. The last month or two I've been knee deep in the design process! I wanted to share a little more about how that works and show off some of the work I've been putting together. 

The first step in my process is to create and present a mood board and call out specific pieces of the image (color palette, place setting look, the berries in the floral, etc.) This is less about creating a cohesive theme and more about taking the direction I've gathered from the client and throwing out some other ideas just to see where we land. We have a conversation about loves/hates, other ideas and the like. The goal here is to gather as much information as I possibly can so I can get those creative juices flowing and present round 2 with a few more unique ideas, exact rental options, etc. 

This client wants something more on the rustic side, so my design round up is filled with ideas to bring out the romantic elegance while still maintaining the rustic style of the couple and the venue. Pulling in the dusty rose, deckled edge paper in off-white tones and wood signage were ways of creating a more rustic look while still elevating the overall feel. 

This is the first round of design boards for this event, and while I don't want to share too much about the final designs, I'll be back to share more about the design process, where things go from here and how we flush out the details to create a cohesive design plan that we then work to plan for and execute on the day-of.