The boutonniere was am awfully hard problem for me. And that became quite apparent when I realized a week before the wedding that I didn't have anything for the men. I literally had some fabric boutonnieres over-nighted to me by the amazing Lauren of RoseBud Lips which arrived at the hotel the day of the wedding! Talk about crazy times. The men probably have a different take on what they would like to have on their lapel, but as far as a wedding goes, the men have to like it, but it must be super cute and go with the whole theme. Ohh what a problem :) I'm loving these made by Lilies & Lemon Drops.